tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2859748852940300750.post3236874209993443993..comments2023-04-04T09:18:42.393-05:00Comments on From the Mixed Up Files of The Amazing Idiot Girl: How Not To "Cope"cathrynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12507895793724303891noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2859748852940300750.post-70110038913826696062009-02-28T12:29:00.000-06:002009-02-28T12:29:00.000-06:00Here's a big hug just for you.Love you.Here's a big hug just for you.<BR/>Love you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2859748852940300750.post-74731298828681931142009-02-27T18:54:00.000-06:002009-02-27T18:54:00.000-06:00i am sorry! I love you....I know when it rains it ...i am sorry! I love you....I know when it rains it pours...I know that half of that stress is my fault....Let me carry it cafra.....please dont feel obligated to anything....if you cannot answer the phone or email or cannot show the house dont...i promise I will not be upset.....My dad will be available to come up all next week so he can take the load off of you....I feel like a big shit putting this stress on you....If I can ever help you in any way let me knowGibbarellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09617026646919793939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2859748852940300750.post-86745561030555690532009-02-26T20:48:00.000-06:002009-02-26T20:48:00.000-06:00it's funny because if you didn't have all this str...it's funny because if you didn't have all this stress, you wouldn't know what to do with yourself...you would be paranoid as shit! We thrive on being overwhelmed!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2859748852940300750.post-69135093210237807332009-02-25T10:48:00.000-06:002009-02-25T10:48:00.000-06:00Awww, Cathryn, if it's any consolation, house buyi...Awww, Cathryn, if it's any consolation, house buying is a really stressful, demanding process even when it's going smoothly. You're constantly called by the realtor and you have to fax about fifty forms 100x times because things keep changing. It's just a big hassle, which is why everyone you ever know who was buying a house sounded like, for a month or two, they were going to pull all their hair out or jump out a window... It's one of the most stressful things you do... A wedding is the second most stressful thing, just to warn you, unless you are going to elope... (I wont even delight you with woeful tales of relative stress that occurs ON the days leading up to the wedding... man, I've got stories about that stressful nightmare and had I to do it all over again, I would have eloped).<BR/><BR/>But, anyway. Dont beat yourself up. Your stress may not be that of someone elsewhere struggling to sustain an existence, but it doesnt make it any less valid. And it's good to vent. I've suffered the loss of a loved one and I dont feel you are selfish or self-centered. ;)Mars Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11403414048823693159noreply@blogger.com